NAVIGATING LIFE AS A CARE PARTNER
Being a care partner for someone with Parkinson’s disease (PD) has its rewards and challenges. Dr. Gilbert spoke with Greg, a care partner of nearly 20 years.
Taking care of someone with PD can be fulfilling and overwhelming at the same time. As someone who has been a long-term care partner for his partner Chad, Greg knows what this is like.
When Greg found out about his partner’s diagnosis, he wondered how his impatient tendencies would affect their relationship. Instead of pretending to be perfect, Greg points out that as a care partner, you’re only human — and negative emotions are nothing to be ashamed of.
“Frustration, impatience — it’s all normal as a human being and a partner,” Greg says. “Don’t beat yourself up when you feel that way because you’re just being a human being in a relationship.”
Greg also emphasizes the importance of learning effective ways to communicate with someone living with PD. “It is important to step back and communicate with that person, because they’re probably more frustrated than you are,” Greg explains.
Understanding these things has helped their family live a rewarding life together. Greg and Chad, along with their 13-year-old son and two Great Danes, value their time together whether they’re traveling cross country or simply enjoying each other’s company.
“It is important to step back and communicate with that person, because they’re probably more frustrated than you are. — Greg
Being a care partner for someone living with PD can be difficult at times, but also rewarding – and remember, you are not alone.
Hear more of Greg’s story, along with other care partners Dr. Gilbert has interviewed.